因果路徑鎖定在言語上之例 Example of Locking a Causal Route of Speech

己所欲言，而他所不欲聞者，言之無效。	You cannot effect your target if you say what you want to say but he does not want to hear.
他所欲聞，而己所不欲言者，言之無益。	You cannot benefit your target if you say what he wants to hear but you do not want to say.
必也以非己所不欲言，且非他所不欲聞者為所言，以鎖定其因果路徑。	If you try to lock the causal route of his behavior, you should say what is acceptable both to you and him.