時變觀念 Time-Variant Conception

我們經常有這種盲點，就是覺得：(一)別人不會變；(二)自己不該變。	We often have such blind spots that (a) others will never change; and (b) we shall never change.
結果，那人變很好，我們不肯接納；這人變很壞，我們不肯離棄。那麼我們就吃虧了。	Then, when that person has become very good, we still refuse to accept him; when this person has become very bad, we still refuse to leave him. These kinds of choices are not beneficial to us.
所以我說，觀察過去是不夠的，還要觀察過去到現在的變化率。	So I say that, it is not enough to observe the past only, but we have to observe the changing from the past to the present.
同樣地，策劃未來也是不夠的，還要策劃現在到未來的變化率。	Similarly, it is not enough to plan the future only, but we have to plan the changing from the present to the future.