我們經常有這種盲點,就是覺得:(一)別人不會變;(二)自己不該變。 |
We often have such blind spots that (a) others will never change; and (b) we shall never change. |
結果,那人變很好,我們不肯接納;這人變很壞,我們不肯離棄。那麼我們就吃虧了。 |
Then, when that person has become very good, we still refuse to accept him; when this person has become very bad, we still refuse to leave him. These kinds of choices are not beneficial to us. |
所以我說,觀察過去是不夠的,還要觀察過去到現在的變化率。 |
So I say that, it is not enough to observe the past only, but we have to observe the changing from the past to the present. |
同樣地,策劃未來也是不夠的,還要策劃現在到未來的變化率。 |
Similarly, it is not enough to plan the future only, but we have to plan the changing from the present to the future. |